Raving about Brien Lundin’s 2009 New Orleans Investment Conference in this week’s WaterCooler Confessions (www.ir-blog.com) I described this event as one where you can literally stretch your arms out and touch wall-to-wall intellectual star power. I highlighted Thom Calandra, Rick Rule, Brien Lundin, Gene Arensberg, Doug Casey, former Governor Howard Dean and former White House strategist Karl Rove in this edition, but I guess I missed a few as one reader wrote me -- “What about the real star power that spoke: Congressman Dr. Ron Paul, Karl Rove, Howard Dean, Rick Santelli, Charles Krauthammer, Peter Schiff, Frank Holmes, Wayne Root, etc, etc?” (eye roll)
With this said, one of my favorites moments was with a couple that had been married a ‘few’ times before. Apparently they had been high school sweethearts and 30-years later when they had a chance to reconnect had committed to never letting each other go. Both respectively hot for their ages; they were radiating happiness over their upcoming engagement and were a genuine pleasure to be around.
As an aside, how many people are so darn miserable or all business like? Personally, I prefer doing business with people that are fun and exude energy, life and happiness! These people are waking up in the morning happy to be alive and well, what better way to do this then with someone you love.
What can I say, I am a romantic; but equally as important, I am and have been seeking more information on what I refer to as the “X,Y,Z Factor” – what really makes us happy. I threw in this Jim Morrison quote in this week’s WaterCooler Confessions for a reason – “I think the highest and lowest points are the important ones. Anything else is just...in between. "
Let me explain…
This last Friday one of my closest friends whose battle with cancer has left her exhausted was desperately trying to understand why she was still single and simultaneously I was dealing with the sadness of my son’s loneliness relating to his Asperger’s; I considered flying home, but as a single parent, reminded myself that I was there to work…
But it was a conversation with an investor that same day attending this event that showed how the power of a single moment can change your life. How a tidal wave of negative energy may be met by positive. How many times have you experienced your worse moment and greatest moment the same day? This was one of those days...
Having been working on a book that a friend of mine Mike Lipkin wrote called One Meeting, One Life; I have recently been considering the impact that we have on others in every conversation. A local physician who likes to invest he overheard my discussion on my “X,Y,Z Principle”, a book idea I have been thinking about for this last year when he joined this conversation. He was looking around the exhibition hall, killing time before the infamous Casey, Dean and Rove debate on medicare/health care reform. Realizing his watch had stopped for no apparent reason (later he told me he had just had it fixed and had picked it up the day before) I gave him a card.
The X,Y, Z Principle, or Factor or whatever I call it when I actually get this all into text is in my mind the secret to happiness. I have written about this before. X is what we want in a partner, Y is what we are will to give and Z is everything in between from job happiness to our overall life objectives -- what we want to give to the universe. I came up with this idea a year and half ago after our DealFlow Rekyvik episode. For no practical reason I went to Iceland a happy person and returned realizing I wanted more and in fact, I wanted a family, a partner – someone to share my life with.
I started with the existing boyfriend. Needless to say the relationship dissolved months later as we respectfully came to the realization that we wanted different things. So I dated for awhile when I ran into an ex. Please understand that I believe one should never ever date an ex, and let’s just leave it at that other than to say that he has agreed to give me positive references and I the same (smile) for future life partners. I hired a coach to force me to make a list of what I was really looking for, and equally important; what I was willing to give.
24 hours later I had agreed to meet this investor after he had promised to rescue me from an evening of business and take me to see the band Truth & Salvage at the House of Blues. Music lovers, surfing enthusiasts and seemingly seeking the same thing out of life; my home was filled with the fragrance of a dozen long stem roses yesterday…and a promise to surf in the future. So what was the worst day, also has become the greatest day and let’s just leave it at that…;-)
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